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Business Coach and Strategist for Women Entrepreneurs releasing doubt, getting visible with confidence and starting their online business with heart

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For Entrepreneurial Women to Release Doubt, Get Visible with Confidence and Start Their Business!
 
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Hey there Sunshine!

Are you dreaming of a successful, change the world business that’s an extension of your empathic, intuitive heart?

 

✓ Ready to harness the power of online marketing while staying connected to your soul?

✓ In dire need of the real and raw truth behind online marketing so your genuine nature stops feeling in conflict with success?

✓ Know you want the online business you’ve been dreaming of but are stuck because authentically attracting clients and getting paid for your epic gifts still remains a mystery?

START RIGHT HERE
 
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The amazing women that I work with may have different reasons why they want to start their online businesses:


They may be ready to quit their 9 to 5 so they can stop feeling uninspired and trapped in a lifestyle where they can’t actually live their ideal lives.

They desire a schedule that allows flexibility so that they can take care of themselves with time, attention and money in the way they deserve.

Or they may even want to be location independent so that they don’t have to be tied to a desk or hourly rate.

However, they all have one thing in common.

They believe in dream regardless of what anyone else is telling them! They know inside (even if it’s been buried deep!) that they can have their dreams fulfilled and are ready to do something about it now!

 
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If you are too you are going to want to jump right in to my foundational group coaching program!


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Maybe you’ve tried to figure it out on your own already.

All those times you’ve “gone for it.”

You know the ones I’m talking about.

You see someone telling you that you can manifest that 20k in two months or get fully booked out in 30 days and you want that too.

Who wouldn’t?

However, when it doesn’t work you feel discouraged, wonder why you can’t get it right and psych yourself out from finding out the real reasons why.

Then you wait until someone else’s story grabs your attention and you try the whole thing all over again.


Gurrrlll, I don’t blame you at all.

Trust me, I’ve believed more hype in my life then all of my fingers, toes, and birth years combined.

This is not to negative nelly the shit out of experts who use mystical and energetic healing as tools in their business.

Quite the contrary.

I will be the first to share about the mystical.

I love making spirituality practical and teaching how the practical is always, always spiritual.

It’s one of my geniuses and the core component of what I teach!

 
 

What I’m shaking my head about are the sweeping marketing claims that forget to give the other half, reality, justice.

These are the same claims where experts will tell you:

How they just “decided” to have a $100k launch and so they did.

(What you’re not seeing are the hundreds of little decisions accumulated over time to get to that big decision.)

You aren’t manifesting that 100k launch because you’ve just gotta change your mindset.

(The reason someone’s mindset allows for a 100k launch is because they’ve worked hard to create systems, have tweaked them through trial and error, and have mastered their messaging + mindset patterns over time.)

That shit takes time, money, resources, a team and lot’s of history getting things to work!


There’s also different types of spiritual entrepreneurs who “manifest” or achieve goals in different ways. Did you know this? What this means is your timeline is going to look different than someone else’s based on your personality, life experiences, current needs, energy levels, etc. etc!

You can take this quiz to find out which one you are now!


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The thing about online is you can see a snapshot of someone through a post or picture and your mind can run away with the fantasy of it all.

Which does a disservice because the last thing you need is to go down a fantastical rabbit hole.

Great for the movies! Not so great in real life when we know where that rabbit hole goes.

Right back to where you started. Womp Womp.

Right back to working for someone else, having to fit your life into a box that somebody else created.

Right back to feeling downright miserable because you know deep inside you’ve got major gifts to share and a huge impact to make.

You want real results and real life clients and a life that aligns with your heart and soul.

When you believe that it gets to be easy from day one, that everything is going to flow naturally and effortlessly without you having to do anything but wave some sage, say a prayer and follow a cookie cutter plan, you set yourself up for an impossible feat.


Things that are black and white unfortunately set you up to give up before you’ve even gotten in the game.

And it’s not even your fault because the online world has been perpetuating so many of these faulty beliefs!!

 
 
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I want you to recognize your greatness and brilliance.

Starting your own business is such a powerful thing. I view it as THRIVING. When you own your presence as the CEO of your business & brand, you are claiming so much power over your life!

I want you to do so with the heart and soul you crave as well. Because creating a business based on someone else’s ideals or through overwhelm and burnout is not what any goddess signs up for.

With the right foundation and support, your business and life get easier, more fulfilling & successful in ways they've never been before. Oh yeah! Don’t forget the impact you will get to make in thousands of others lives!!


Do these sound familiar?


✔️ You’re downloading a ton of freebies from tons and tons of different coaches, in hopes you’ll find the magic secret to getting your business off the ground.

You are consuming a shit ton of conflicting advice from a sea of sweet talkin’ success-y suitors in your inbox vying for your attention.

“It all sounds sooo enticing!” your endorphins chirp, as you read their emails and binge on their sugary sweet freebies.

Meanwhile, you keep tossing out each of your brilliant, money making ideas because that next ping means an even better 5 step framework that will get you there . . . faster.

Don’t get me wrong. Freebies are great. I think mine is awesome and super helpful. A freebie is a great sample of someone’s teachings that give you a solution to a specific problem.

Gobbling them up like Swedish fish though?

Bound to give you a stomach ache! It’s important to find a few leaders who vibe with you, your mission and style . . . stick with that!


✔️ You’re wasting time listening to coaches that want to sell you that their way is the way.


This. Omg. Bookmark this blog post for later:

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You’ll hear my detailed account of what happened when I white knuckled someone else’s approach for far too long.

#Doyouhavetroublelettinggotoo?


✔️ You’re still thinking business is built on instant gratification, emotion equates to motivation and that overnight success is the norm, you just need to hustle more.

Yeah, #allthethings sounds nice but let’s face it, doing all the things, all the time #sucks. Hello Burnout!

✔️ You’re ignoring your empathic, creative and heart centered nature because you don’t know how to balance it with the drive you think you need to make things happen.

Let’s admit though. Selling your soul is not your way to make money!

✔️You’re telling yourself, “It will happen when it will happen.”

I’m the first to acknowledge there is a season for everything. We cannot deny the universal laws of rhythm and surrender. However, there’s a good chance that what looks like “surrendering to the process” is actually fear, disappointment and confusion keeping you stuck in that cubicle instead of chillin’ with the palm trees.


I know, I know.

Have you let out a good bone chilling scream yet?

It’s enough to make anyone feel crazy.

But seriously, give yourself a big hug because first of all, you’ve tried with chutzpa and a ton of good intention.

Deep down you know that in order for that beautiful heart and big delicious brain of yours to be happy, you need substance, sustainability and soul.

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Yes, yes! That’s what I need.”

And you shall have it my friend. It is yours.

 
 

Women who find me share all the time that they doubt it’s even possible to be authentic, empathic and real and at the same time make a lot of money.

Did you just get a queasy feeling? I can hear your unconscious shuddering from over here.

“Look at them being all salesy!

“I don’t want to come across like that!”

“No way.”

Trust me I get it.

There was a time I just felt disgust when I saw people doing online marketing.

I was leading with my judgment and not seeing clearly.

What I really needed to do was open myself to the possibility that there were women out there, just like me, with good intentions who also made a lot of money!


Because if you don’t, your big dreams are going to shrink right back into the background.

Back to dodging those damn pastries in the conference room!

Seriously though. Is there some magical self-replenishing bakery run by a European grandma in every office basement? :D

 
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Here I am!

This passion to support amazing women just like you is because I believe in the influence and unique gifts of women as leaders!

We can be confident, direct, gentle and loving all at the same time.

A women like this is a true Warrioress because she cultivates balance and honors her sacred path as a divine soul.

I see a woman like this as unstoppable and massively capable of anything she desires and I want you to feel this way!

It is true that there are experts who exploit customers and are highly money and outcome driven.

However, there are so many more experts that are not this way.

More importantly, this is not you!

You are different.

You are genuine, authentic and know making a real difference means sticking to your values in business too.

I know this because you wouldn’t have even read this far if you weren’t so awesome!!

Yes, there’s a million messages about how to be successful online.

Just head over to GOOGLE and you’ll get your proof.
And yes, those messages are conflicting.

So what makes my work different than most of the other coaches and strategists out there?

Yes, I am smart, intuitive and empathic.

I value honesty, generosity and resilience.

Yes, I’ve got the masters and a license in therapy.

I’ve worked as a mind body therapist for 10 years.

I’ve helped hundreds of people from 1:1, to groups, to workshops, retreats and professional development.

I’ve taught at a University.

I’ve completed a 200 hr yoga teacher training and have several reiki certifications under my belt.

I’m excellent at all the things required to get you to where you want to go.

Speaking, Teaching, Writing, Designing, Creating, Dancing, Playing . . .

I know I’m 100% beyond made for this.

I love it all.

But none of that is anywhere near as powerful than the time and energy I’ve spent showing up for myself.

It’s how I am able to be proud and share all of the things that make me awesome for starters!

But that’s just the lovely byproduct of spending years developing the endurance and the patience to love myself.

The getting back up again over and over and over again.

The cultivation of compassion and the ever growing wisdom necessary to heal myself and be the woman I am today.

Because of this, I’m not going to let YOU be a mixed message. For yourself. For your clients.

What does that mean?

Your clarity, success and genius is inevitable.

You are meant to shine.

I see you.

And I have the utmost respect for you and this process.

You deserve honesty and support.

You deserve to be told straight up the realities of starting and sustaining an online business.

You deserve to get your needs and wants met.


Your inner and outer worlds get to be a perfect match for your vision.

You deserve the whole package, not just a snapshot.

The thought of being a kickass boss babe and a confident, abundant goddess don’t have to play tug of war on your heart anymore.

Don’t settle for anything less than this or let it stop you any more lady!!

You can and will do it differently.

When you listen inside to what it is you truly want.

When you acknowledge and own what it is that you need to be happy.

When you know without a doubt how you deserve to be treated in this life.

When you finally admit that you can’t do this alone.

You will take the next step forward.

 
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Are you ready to release self doubt and get visible with confidence in business so you can get paid for sharing your gifts?

✔️ ready to drop the doubts and fears and use this freed up energy for creating?

✔️ ready to wake up in the morning and feel excited to share your heart centered mission?

✔️ ready to be seen as an expert and have clients who are so grateful that you crossed paths?

✔️ ready to have a business foundation based on your unique needs that is sustainable for the longterm?

✔️ ready to have limitless freedom to share your gifts while getting paid to change the world?


This is all possible for you.

What the women who find me often realize is that they are bouncing back and forth between actively searching for the right strategy or laying low + just letting things happen, hoping that things will just fall into the place in the right time.

Despite this deep desire to start their online businesses, they end up stuck, confused and blame themselves because they feel maybe there’s just something wrong with them.

Maybe they just aren’t cut out for having their own business or navigating the online world!

Sound eerily familiar?

The reality is there’s nothing wrong with you.

What you actually need is a solid foundation rooted in intuition and alignment and at the same time practical, tangible strategies that are flexible enough to be in relationship to your inner guidance.

A way to cut through the noise, the influx of advice and outside influence that honors YOU.

As a Business Coach, Strategist and CEO mentor, I love helping creative, empathic, gifted entrepreneurial women like you do exactly that.

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I am sooo passionate about teaching my empathic, heart centered, mighty genius women clients what they need to make real life magic-in-business a concrete reality.

Heck, I’ve been that woman who would dream about her online business for years and never make any traction!

 
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No one is a success overnight.

You aren’t just going to go viral and get limitless amounts of income for the rest of your life.

You can’t just aimlessly post on social media and hope and pray that your dreams will come true.

If you want to be seen for real by strangers who want to pay you, then you have to move through #allthethings that are preventing you from doing the work: like cultivating patience, vulnerability and getting specific with your unique message.

What you need is the real behind the scenes of what it takes to create a sustainable online business in a way that feels good to you.

Which means if you don’t like someone’s else’s sales approach, fuck it.

Don’t use it!

You don’t have to sell anything, really.

You just have to get really, really, good at being your biggest cheerleader, while knowing what YOU want and the who, what, where, when, why and how you serve the people that you serve.

Of course you have to learn things, but this isn’t like algebra.

You get to experiment.

You get the complete freedom to course correct and honor what feels good to you along the way.

You’re a smart cookie so I know for a fact you can do this.

Because soon you’ll be doing your thang and shouting it from the hilltops and throwing dollars in the air and getting a photo shoot of it and all of that :D

All it takes is committing to the next right action, the next simple step.


Otherwise it will seem like a lot (too much) and overwhelming when looking at it all at once.

My guess is that makes the subconscious parts of you cower a little.

Good! That means you want it.

This will be the scariest thing you will do.

It will be worth it though.

You will show those parts of yourself the way because you know what you need to do.

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The only permission you need to put yourself out into the world is from YOU to you!

To say I want this, I deserve this, this is me!

This is why I teach the whole enchilada.

When you emphasize both practical business strategy and a spiritual foundation magic starts to happen:

⭐️ You’ll Show Up Confident and Revved Up About Your Expertise so prospective clients know you are exactly who they need to hire!

⭐️ Be a Magnet for High Impact Opportunities in front of your ideal clients so that your audience keeps growing and growing!

⭐️ Supercharge Your Creativity and Inspiration So You Create Insanely Valuable Content that Your Audience Can’t Wait to Devour!

⭐️ Amplify Your Income and Set the Foundation for Sharing Your Paid Offers with Ease without feeling sleazy or salesy!

PLUS

✔️ Doubts will continuously dissolve as your empowered True Self emerges.

✔️ Things will get easier as you learn to balance passion with flexibility in your desired schedule.

✔️ You will naturally prioritize feeling great and successful.

✔️ You will know it’s your birthright to receive divine compensation for being you.

✔️ You will own a a business that honors your whole self and is making a difference in the world.

Sounds amazing doesn’t it?

This is exactly what I work on with my women entrepreneur clients each and everyday.

You don’t have to do it alone!

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Who am I?


I’m Jen!

I’m a masterful coach, strategist and teacher because I’m a well rounded human who has done a ton of work on myself.

I’ve been a licensed therapist for 10 years and have my Masters in Social work.

I’ve had my own successful, self-sustaining business since 2012 and I’ve never looked back! I love being my own boss!

My counseling background and creative soul are vital in how I support my clients on their journey to empowered leadership and business success.

I’m going to encourage you but I’m also going to normalize your experiences and go into the nitty gritty with you!

Combining the practical of business strategy with a conscious, spiritual foundation is the key for myself and the clients I work with.

Throw in my healer's spirit, nerdy science brain, bare reggae dancing feet and raw survivor's grit and I'm a force to be reckoned with for you & your biz ;)

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Oh yeah and I paint!

You can check out more of my art here.

My home base is in New Jersey and I live with my fiance and my westie bestie Tigerlily.

 
 
 
For the longest time I was absolutely frustrated with the law of attraction because it didn’t seem to work for me.  However, I Just couldn’t feel into the positive feelings for very long when it came to “manifesting” a partner.⁣
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Year after year I tried all sorts of things with the law of attraction but the partner never came. I felt like a failure, a bad manifestor and like I was destined to be alone forever. Then one day, after a shit ton of trials, tribulations and horrible first, second and third dates, I met my future husband Dan. Things flowed naturally from that point forward. His energy was quite different towards me than anyone I had previously been with. ⁣
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Sure, there were bumps in the road but it all did feel different. However, I still kept thinking if I really wasn’t “feeling” the law of attraction? According to the law of attraction, I shouldn’t have met the right person because I wasn’t feeling all that good juju and vibrations about my ideal partner! ⁣
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Well, now that I understand that there are many, many, universal laws that we live by, it all made so much sense! I had been spending over a decade working on cultivating my own connection to these universal laws myself without realizing it (through my intuition, my therapist’s guidance, experiences) They were actually the reason why I “manifested” my future husband. ⁣
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I had parts of myself (inner children) that needed my attention to be raised, healed and retired from an adult role, communication skills to learn and how to connect with people, building examples and trust of what healthy relationships looked like, raising my expectations of what I deserved because my baseline was so low for men etc.⁣
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I’m going to be chatting about these laws during my Tuesday Tip sessions in my free Facebook group, the 5 Star Life for Women Entrepreneurs. Check the link in my bio so that you can join us!! :)⁣
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I am grateful for all the experiences I needed to go through to learn that I wanted to do things a different way for my business. ⁣
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I strongly believe that despite the bumps there were things I needed to work through, just as you will have your own journey.⁣
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While we are doing our own work we are deepening into our raw truth the whole time. We need to give our self credit for what we do on a daily basis.⁣
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When we use our experiences for their higher purposes it all turns into goodness that keeps aligning us and course correcting us onto a path that works for us.⁣
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And this will keep happening and continuing because there is always something new to learn! ⁣
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These experiences aren’t failures. They are what makes you human and helps others connect to you as well.
I’m not a big fan (aka I really can’t stand) emails that send mixed messages from coaches about working with them. ⁣
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If you are going to teach your client or student how to listen to their own intuition, then if they decide they don’t want to sign up for your offer how can you claim to know that means that person is in fear?⁣
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Yes, there are some people who will not sign up for an offer because they are stuck in fear. However, that’s not everyone. There are people who have worked hard to listen to their own inner wisdom and inner voice and are able to discern when something is the right season for them or not. ⁣
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There are people who do make conscious decisions. I’m a big fan of acknowledging that. I’m a big fan of acknowledging multiple truths and multiple sides to things. Yes, this can be the nature of sales emails and posts because it is important to narrow your message to talk directly to one person. However, make sure when you do that you are okay with who you are alienating. ⁣
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Again, this is important! Being direct means there will be people who don’t like what you are putting out there and people who love it.⁣
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I love working with women who honor their own truth, want to practice trusting themselves and who may need a nudge but never force. Know who you are and know who your audience is. That’s when things get magnetic!
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Keep getting information about the people who are supporting you and the people who are not.⁣
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Keep paying attention to how you feel when you show up. It is a process. There are growing pains. And you are going to try out things and work with people and realize they aren’t the right fit. However, what you will find along the way is what IS working. ⁣
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You will discover who your people are, who your huge supporters are and things will start to move forward in a way that works for YOU. That is why we want to have our own businesses in the first place, isn’t it?⁣
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Read more from my latest blog "The Real Story Behind Growing a Social Media Account to Almost 10k Followers"⁣ (link in my bio!) .⁣
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Real, Practical + Soulful Articles to Get You Started

 
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How to overcome the most common success blocks that arise for newbie entrepreneurs- Part 1
How to overcome the most common success blocks that arise for newbie entrepreneurs- Part 1
The Real Story Behind Growing a Social Media Account to Almost 10k Followers
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The Ultimate Guide to Your 2019 Lady Boss Business Plan
The Ultimate Guide to Your 2019 Lady Boss Business Plan

A Few Key Truths I’ve Picked Up Along the Way

✔️ There’s no certain way to be or act when creating your business

✔️ You’re not being egotistical if you want to get paid for sharing a heartfelt message

✔️ Following your own rhythm doesn’t mean you have to suffer consequences in your business (it’s actually the opposite)

✔️ Everyone’s experimenting (aka there’s no tree that grows out of the ground written with the be all end all).

✔️ You’re not doing it wrong because it’s taking longer than you think.

✔️ Selling is just sharing when it’s coming from intention and the heart.

✔️ It will all be worth it and better than you expect!

Lady Boss Business plan that includes your marketing strategies, ideal client description and social media focus.

You are here for a reason. Your desires are meant to be in full expression!

 
 

It’s Time to Get Your Sweet Self Ready To

✔️ feel supported

✔️ be spiritually fulfilled

✔️ have meaning & connection

✔️ have a sense of peace you continuously tap into

✔️ have financial security

✔️ create profit in a business you love

✔️ have freedom from the the roller coaster ride

✔️ make a huge impact

✔️ and love what you are doing as a human and CEO

START NOW!
 

What would it be like to believe 100% in the inevitability of your 5 star life success?

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